I Thought I Was Going to Some Concerts. 

Five and a half months. Multiple countries. A ridiculous number of flights. More BTS concerts than any reasonable person needed to attend.

I thought I was documenting a tour.

It turned into a story about what can happen when you stop asking whether you're too old and start asking, “Why not me?”

Discover ANYHOO

Welcome to Covert Fandom

Sometimes the thing that wakes you up is the thing you never expected to love.

What started for me with BTS became something much bigger: stories, travel, community, creativity, and a reminder that we're never actually finished becoming who we are.

Covert Fandom is about following the things that light us up—and seeing where they lead.

Sometimes the fandom is just the doorway.

Find Your Way In

  • COME WITH ME

    Trips, tours, meetups, and adventures for people who are ready to stop saying “someday.”

    See Where We're Going 

  • WATCH WITH ME

    BTS, K-dramas, C-dramas, reactions, rabbit holes, and whatever has me completely invested this week.

    Watch With Me 

  •  BOOKS & FILM 

    Novels, screenwriting, filmmaking, and the stories I’ve been telling long before Covert Fandom existed.

    Explore My Stories → 

Hi, I'm Stefne.

I’m a writer, filmmaker, content creator, community builder, and increasingly enthusiastic trip planner who accidentally discovered that saying yes to the things you love can completely change your life.

Covert Fandom is where all of those pieces now live together—and where I hope you’ll find a little inspiration to follow whatever is calling you next.

More About Me

Have something you want to figure out? 

Bring me your idea, project, content problem, travel question, or “I want to do this thing but have no idea where to start” moment.

We’ll spend an hour talking it through together.

PICK MY BRAIN →